from Anonymous
Hah, thanks for following up. The twitter format can be quite limiting.
I also find the term feminazi to be incredibly derogatory, and don’t think it applies to any but the most far fringe elements of the feminist bandwagon - and only then because they have adopted the term for themselves. The line of what defines extremism in any group is quite arbitrary, and referencing myself as a feminazi was just meant to call out that while you seemed to find Jessica Valenti worthy of the moniker, I find her to be quite on target for middle ground, core feminist ideals… not extreme at all. But if you considered her as such, then I would be, as well.
As for “just a militant feminist” … I’m not sure what you’re getting at there, heh. I am not a “radical” feminist in the sense that I don’t seek to “overthrow the patriarchy and rework the world order by force,” though I’m certainly an activist in the sense of being vocal (online and in the male dominated industry in which I work/play), participating in the political cloud, and keeping the dialogue open with friends, family, and the next generation to reframe the world in the way I think it should be.
To me, being a feminist is just being a woman that thinks she’s a person like everybody else, and can’t help but notice when the world seems to disagree. It’s not about finding reasons to be angry (they come up often enough without hunting for them) or tearing apart the fabric of Real America™- it’s about getting women the education they need to be able to make their own choices, and the facility and agency to exercise those choices. Oh - and getting men to think that’s a good thing.
I hope my answer helps; while you and I seem to share the same hobbies, we probably share different socio-political ideologies. And that’s fine - living in an echo chamber is boring. :)
DC comics recently started re-releasing some updated versions of classic comic heroes to regain some lost readership. Assuming you were a kid in the 80s, you’re a grown up now, and therefore whereas you previously liked a female superhero that was pretty and kicked ass, you now like a female superhero that is a caricature of tits and ass, and stands still in panels while musing on a complex, sex-based storyline. Sure - maybe it’s aimed at “adults,” but is it really an improvement?
As a kid who read plenty of grown-up books, I love that fantasy author Michelle Lee had her 7 year old daughter write her response to the “character evolution.”
via io9:
“Do you think the Starfire from the Teen Titans cartoon is a good role model?”
*immediately* “Oh yes. She’s a great role model. She tells people they can be good friends and super powerful and fight for good.”
“Do you think the Starfire in the Teen Titans comic book is a good role model?”
“Yes, too. She’s still a good guy. Pretty, but she’s helping others all the time and saving people.”
“What about this new Starfire?”
“No, I don’t think so.”
“Why not?”
“Because she’s not doing anything.”
Checkmate.

What if game companies featured female characters in their marketing campaigns instead of always defaulting to male? The player chooses everything, why not represent that instead of ALWAYS going with the dude on the cover?
Look at this! It’s amazing! It’s just as gorgeous as the original and still makes me want to play the game.
I totally concur. I just watched the 20 minutes of gameplay footage posted last week (looks sweeeeeet) and was bemoaning that it’s all with the one dude with the horn helmet. I would have dug seeing the difference in movement of a female character, or even the fight style of the non-human races like an Argonian or Kahjit.
Still, so stoked!
(Source: face-down-asgard-up)
Jezebel called this sexist Forever 21 shirt to my attention this morning. Imagine my delight at getting one of the last two in Union Square. Best $12 I’ve ever spent ironically.
Biebershop sold separately.
Update: My friends had some more suggestions about how to fix this photo. At this point, picture is essentially unrelated.

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Reading this made my nose get all scrunchy with disgust.
… and I generally like Doghouse Diaries, so now I feel dirty inside. Dislike.
(Source: theseanwilson)
(photo via tumblinfeminist)
Rep. Barbara Bollier, a Mission Hills Republican who supports abortion rights, questioned whether women would buy abortion-only policies long before they have crisis or unwanted pregnancies or are rape victims.
During the House’s debate, Rep. Pete DeGraaf, a Mulvane Republican who supports the bill, told her: “We do need to plan ahead, don’t we, in life?”
Bollier asked him, “And so women need to plan ahead for issues that they have no control over with a pregnancy?”
DeGraaf drew groans of protest from some House members when he responded, “I have spare tire on my car.”
“I also have life insurance,” he added. “I have a lot of things that I plan ahead for.”
Kansas Rep Pete DeGraaf reminds you to plan ahead for rape!
Feminism is an ocean. It’s large sea of ideals created a powerful current of changes in waves. The waves of feminism beat the status quo for women just as the ocean’s tide beats and erodes the ocean.
(Fantastic tumblr. Check it out.)
“Bliss” is supposed to be seafoam green and comes with a rubberized back, allowing for a better grip on the phone. It’s apparently a mating of the HTC Desires S and Z, without a keyboard. The green color is supposed to be “calming.” and the phone also comes with a soothing wallpaper to go along with it. “Bliss” will come tailored with shopping and calorie counting apps, and will most likely run the Sense UI.
The “Reaction” in the article is pretty complete, so I’m not going to rehash it. But for reference, here is a way to tell if your mobile phone’s “feminization” effort is belittling and sexist or not:
Is it really that hard??
Based on Postage by Greg Cooper. Everything heavily modified by me.
*Unlikely to find your lost post using this but you can try...
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